TRY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE – A Jewish Woman Hidden in Berlin

  • What was everyday life like in hiding during National Socialism? An impressing and dramatic story of hope and betrayal, of civil courage amidst terror, and of the unwavering will to survive.
  • More than 200,000 copies sold!
  • Complete English translation available.

On January 20, 1943, ahead of a planned flight from Nazi Germany, Margot Bendheim learned that her brother and mother had just been picked up by the Gestapo. Her mother manages to leave her a note saying “Try to live your life.” Alone and forsaken, Margot dies her hair red and even undergoes rhinoplasty to hide her Jewish heritage. For fifteen months, she lives in concealment in Berlin, aided by Germans whose motives are not always purely selfless. Then, in 1944, she is taken to Theresienstadt, where with considerable luck she survives the horrors of the Nazi concentration camp. Sixty years on from her emigration to the United States, Margot Friedlander nee Bendheim shares her remarkable life story. With the help of author Malin Schwerdtfeger, she tells a dramatic tale of hope and betrayal, courage and the will to live.

"An impressive document about a lesser-known chapter of the Holocaust – and the life story of a remarkable woman." FAZ

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  • Publisher: Rowohlt Berlin
  • Release: 07.03.2008
  • ISBN: 978-3-87134-587-6
  • 272 Pages
  • Authors: Margot FriedlanderMalin Schwerdtfeger

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Margot Friedlander

Margot Friedlander, born in November 1921 and passed away in May 2025, survived persecution and war while living underground in Berlin and later in the Theresienstadt concentration camp. Her parents and brother were murdered in Auschwitz. In 1946, she emigrated to the United States. The documentary film about her life, titled Don’t Call It Heimweh , opened the 11th Jewish Film Festival Berlin and Potsdam in 2005. In 2023, at the age of 101, she was awarded the Federal Cross of Merit, First Class. Since 2010, she had lived once again in Berlin, where she was actively engaged in Holocaust education as a contemporary witness.

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Malin Schwerdtfeger

Malin Schwerdtfeger, born in 1972, lives as a freelance writer in Berlin.